How to piss the internet off: look hotter at 40 than 20, be a woman.

Women getting hotter as they age should not be controversial, but it is. It is because it disrupts the core dominance of the patriarchy. When a woman feels entitled to be sexy and be proud that she looks and feels as good as she does, the patriarchy is triggered. I had a viral comment this week which you'll see above, and filmed a youtube video on it here, and I wanted to talk about this phenomenon.

So the video was pretty innocuous. I didn't realize it would be controversial until I looked at the comments. And this was not the first video I saw where a woman was talking about how she felt good about herself despite the norm of it being drilled into her head that she would be "dried up and bitter" at 30 or above. That's where my comment came from. It was a pattern I had observed over the course of the last few weeks, so let's dive into it.

In the most patriarchal circles, we are told women are born with value and it declines, while men are not born with value but it inclines. Basically what we're working with is a graph that would look like an X. This is what the patriarchy has riddled us for ages. But this is a fairytale. Nature never designed this because nature never designed money or the nuclear family, and that's what this whole graph is based around.

Men have decided that since they are "providers" their value increases since wealth is established over time, and they weaponize this against women because they are insecure by womens growing power. But this argument is fallible.

First of all, these concepts are straight from the bible, second, I can whip up an argument that says men are the ones that decline after 25, and truth could not be so easily manipulated. It makes perfect sense women would get more attractive over time, afterall, they are naturally useful to society. They raise children and build communities. Men are useful for building, hunting, and reproduction, which are all strongest between like 18-25. Okay you see where I'm going with this?

It's obvious why men are triggered, but let's talk about why this video triggers women. Women are told they are the moral barometers of the human race. They are immoral if they express sexuality in any way. There's "no actual reason for women to want to have sex" so if they have a sex drive, it's because they are defective and they should downplay this at all costs.

For decades and beyond, women have accepted this as truth and obeyed. They play by these rules and are triggered when women don't. Because when you are living a life that is not your own, you have a lot invested in other people following suit. You become triggered when someone steps outside of the norm because you never did.

I'm here to dismantle these lies for you so you can stop gaslighting yourself. The truth is, anyone can get better with time if they invest in themselves. You. are. not. crazy. You get to get hotter and sexier, your satisfaction with life gets to increase, along with your magnetism.

My only message for you is, do you think you can trust yourself? Do you think you can be brave enough to begin to identify your authentic self and stand by her? This isn’t just for women, this is the best path forward for everyone. It benefits everyone for women to stand in their highest personal power. And I encourage you to do the following homework- stop. motherfucking. gaslighting. yourself. Watch here!