Our topic of today...The eyes go where energy flows
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For my girls struggling with confidence because of their skin or how they look
The eyes go where energy flows
You are only limited by your looks insofar as you assign that power to them
Giving them power looks like: saying you cannot have what you want because of how you look
There are barely any ultimate truths in this universe
These ideas become true because you've decided they were true
Your attention to these ideas bring them energy
And other peoples attention are then directed there as well
Your interaction with other people is within your control
Your experience is within your control
When you decide some external factor that you cant presently control has power over you
You put yourself in the energy of asking "please"
That is NOT the vibe
The vibe is... I know my power
And nothing will stop me
My power is that attention goes where energy flows
If the attention is on the fact that I think Im gorgeous and hot and I dont even notice my flaws, that is where attention flows
Its not that people dont see your "flaws", its that you have given them no power
So there will be no gravity around them
People may notice but will be unfazed because you are unfazed
They will not limit you because you've decided they mean nothing
You've decided that your desires are the ultimate truth of this universe
Youve decided that you get to have what you want regardless of a temporary external situation that you dont like
There are plenty of examples of this,
Tana Mongeau (youtube star) had this quote in her bio forever;
not bad for a 5 with no talent
She knew her apparent limitations as an influencer (the fact she is average looking)
But didn't give a fuck
So no one else did either
People fell in love with her
They saw she was, yes, objectively- average looking.
but they didn't care and found her adorable
Imagine if she would have told the story of ...
because Im average looking there's no way I can be a famous influencer
People will never want to listen to what I have to say because I am average looking and come from an average family
I am sure I will not be accepted into society on a large scale, garner large amounts of money, fame, friendships etc.
We would have never known her
She could have very easily said; I dont fit the mold of what a famous influencer looks like
And that would have been a typical human response
But she didn't fall into line with the rest of society, she fell into line with what she knew was inside of her
She put her currency behind her desires,
And her attention behind the fact that she could get what she wanted despite how she looked
Another example, Addison Rae (tiktok star)
She exploded in 2020 and so did her skin
Her skin is fucked completely broken out so bad
But she is unfazed by it
She had every opportunity to sabotage her rise to the top because of her skin
Youre accumulating millions of followers per week
And out of nowhere your skin starts breaking out uncontrollably
You could say...
Theres no way people will accept me like this
Theres no way i can be a superstar with this skin
Once people find out I look like this they'll lose interest
I can't go to public appearances looking like this
I cant partake in major advertising campaigns looking like this
My makeup artists will see my skin and see the "real me"
They will see that I'm a fraud
They will see who I truly am and reject me.
The universe must be against me if Im breaking out at this time in my life when I should be the happiest
When ive garnered all the fame and fortune I was seeking
And now these breakouts come from no where
It would have been so easy for her to destroy herself
She never assigned meaning around it
It didn't touch her self worth
Im sure it bothers her because breakouts are annoying
But she didn't tell stories about how it would limit her
Therefore it doesn't limit her
People barely care about it or notice it
The best criminals steal things in plain site
Because no one expects you do that
Meaning, own it, no one expects you to and they will love you for it.
You are the only one that chooses what you experience
You are the only one that limits you
>>If you examine deeper, what is the core belief this self destruction rests on?<<
Dive deeper into the trigger
Until you get to the bottom and find the core belief.
Once you become aware of the belief you can change it
This is just an added bonus, you can just decide right now that your limitations are no longer your limitations
End of story!
So where are you blocking yourself?