Can I speak so freely right now?
You're not "invisible" because of your age, you're "invisible" because of the lies you believe.
Because of the way you've erased yourself.
The way you've accommodated everyone.
The way you are opted into a reality that doesn't serve you.
You don't have to be here at the end of the day.
Above and beyond that, this is not about being "invisible" or not, it's about-why are you so impacted by that?
You must know by now that attraction and magnetism are not purely scientific.
“Visibility” doesn’t exist for women in a certain age or size bracket. It’s an art form.
"It's easy for you to say, you aesthetically fit the mold of a conventionally pretty person"
I have felt the vibe before of… “they don’t understand, they have it easier” etc.
And I just have to say.... Why are you so excited to defend your position?
The core of what I'm saying is the reality.
I can be conventionally hot and still explain to you these asinine patriarchal ideas in fact more so since i've always been propped up and ego boosted by the patriarchy
I can be conventionally hot and still explain to you that you have the option to trick reality into thinking you're hot
You have the option to live a life where you are magnetic.
Because being hot does not equal magnetism.
I've been the same human my whole life and sometimes I'm “invisible” and sometimes I'm magnetic.
It has nothing to do with how I look and everything to do with how I think I look, how i feel about myself, and how close to truth I am within myself.
What we’re really talking about here is power.
If you’ve lost power, it’s not due to age, it’s due to lack of resilience.
It’s due to your inability to wield power.
It’s because you trusted society over your own instincts.
It's because you relied on external validation to feed your power.
You are angry about being "invisible" because you know you did it to yourself.
You’re domesticated and it’s obvious. But this is also great news, because you can fix it and reclaim your power.
You know you handed over your power
The first way to reclaim it is by realizing that true power never dies.
The second is to fully understand ego and dismantle it.
And finally, you need to assess all the ways in which you’ve become domesticated.
Playing by the rules you were taught is making you live a life of insecurity and inauthenticity.
if you're obsessed with your life, good for you then you don't need my help.
This is not for someone who's obsessed with their life.
This is for someone who desperately needs a change of perspective
A change of life, a change of energy, an awakening, a reawakening to your power.
A return to your power is how you get what you want.
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